Tag: words

what’s still lovely

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do you happen to know little things in live we found around us that makes our hearts melts for couple seconds. something that we found as we started to noticing our surroundings, something lovely like this:

1. a kiss on the cheek before someone dropped us home.

2. someone actually remembering a heartfelt sentences that we said years ago.

3. being told that your presence are being missed.

4. a spontaneous after office hour date.

5. someone picking you up late at night after a concert.

6. being told that you smells good.

7. newly washed t-shirt.

8. thick & heavy blanket for sleep.

9. someone letting you have the first bite of their ice cream.

10. late night calls for no reason.

Apparently the words “I love you can” be shown in so may ways.

Little Sara

This is Me Letting Your Go Without Stopping Myself Loving You

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Faraway – Meenoi

Yesterday as I stumbled upon Jeff the Therapist’s video on tiktok I heard some notions that intrigue my interest. According to Jeff; the idea of completely forgetting about a person or experience is unrealistic since holding on to memories and feelings that we have towards a specific person and/or memories is something natural. Furthermore, Jeff’s said that; it is possibe to be in love with someone else while at the same time still have a lingering feelings for the past partner (even it may feels wrong and uncomfortable).

The point is, we don’t need to forget anything in order to moving on. Or if I can put it a bit more personal and specific; we don’t need to stop loving someone just because the whole relationship -whatever terms you both were back then- could not continue as you planned. We are allowed to yearning over the person, the feeling, the moments and memories we had during our journey of accepting the fact that those sweet things is no longer able to walk in the same trails with us.

As on the page 69 of an infamous book “The Strength in Our Scars”, Bianca Sparacino wrote;

This is me understanding that it is okay to miss someone who was once such staple in my life. But this is me also understand that life goes on.

So, well…

I guess this is me who’s crying my heart out during yout birthday knowing I cannot congratulates you as I once was. This is me seeing your products being displayed at a creative design exhibition without being able to tell you how proud I am for you and your achievement. This is me watching a short videos about Claude Monet’s painting and found some intriguing facts you might like but unable to share it with you. Because this is also me honoring the line you and I drawn as we realized that there will be no future alignment appeared in our life. This is me honoring my value and my time and so are you.

Little Sara